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By Brian Kilcommons and Sarah Wilson, Dog trainers and authors of many books on dog training and behavior including "Good Owners, Great Dogs"
The first thing you must understand about so called "behavior problems" is that they are rarely a problem for the dog. Chances are he enjoys digging up your garden, tipping over the trash, jumping on you, chasing the cat or unstuffing the couch.
Problem correction, like command training, has a predictable sequence of steps you need to follow to be successful:
Before you can attempt any changes make sure that you are not creating the problem. If you don't give the dog what he needs - a proper diet, plenty of exercise and daily interaction - or if you give him more of something than he can handle - crate him for long hours, constantly excite him or frighten him frequently - he will not be able to give you his best.
Now prevent the mishaps until you and your dog are fully prepared. Crating, closing doors and keeping the dog on lead with you when you are home are just a few ways to minimize mischief. When you leave, confine him safely.
One of your training goals is to always give your dog a way to succeed - a way to earn rewards. With problem behaviors, ask yourself is "What behavior would I prefer?" Often "sit" is an option. A dog who is sitting cannot be jumping up, stealing food from the toddler or cruising the counter top for yummies. One of the best ways to address an unwanted behavior is to spend several days or weeks working on the desired alternative until your dog will do it quickly and reliably.
Most dogs don't have any idea what you want them to do, so it's up to you to be crystal clear. If you want the dog to greet you by sitting, you'd better tell him to sit. It's all too common for owners to complain about an unwanted behavior while never teaching the dog what the wanted behavior is. By clearly directing him to the desired behavior, he quickly learns how to act appropriately.
Does it seem obvious that he should be rewarded for doing the right thing? Maybe. But how often have you struggled through the door with the dog jumping up at you, you hip checking, shoving or yelling at him? When he finally gets off of you, you think "Whew, now I can get my coat off." and you ignore him. What got him the most attention? Jumping. What made the attention stop? Not jumping. With that one common and innocent action, you just taught your dog to jump longer next time.
Or, how often have you seen him walk by with something forbidden in his mouth. You scold him and tell him to drop it and when he does, you continue to scold him? It is easy to miss an opportunity to reward the good behavior, but if you want your dog to learn, you must work to catch him doing things right. If you tell him "Drop it!" and he does, PRAISE him. Even if he just dropped what's left of a favorite shoe, it's too late to correct the chewing. All you can hope to do now is to teach him to drop things when you ask, so focus on that.
Some behaviors are best simply ignored as attention of any kind, even when you are upset, can reward some dogs. For example, your dog jumps up at his dinner bowl. You say nothing but quietly turn away and put his dinner back on the counter and wait. When he stops jumping, you pick up the bowl. He jumps; you put the bowl back on the counter. Many dogs quickly learn that jumping now causes the food to move away, not toward.
Removing the reward? What does that mean? Well, picture this: You're watching TV, and the dog is sitting in front of you, staring at you. You ignore him. He woofs softly. You tell him "Quiet." He barks more loudly, you say "Quiet!"... and on you go. Finally in frustration you throw his toy in the other room in the hopes of distracting him. You just rewarded him for barking at you.
Or how about this: You're outside playing with him, and he runs to you and jumps up. You laugh and give him a hug. Oops, you just rewarded jumping! It's an easy mistake to make and truly confusing for the dog.
Behavior problems can't be willed away. It doesn't help to think about crating him or to contemplate setting up a training situation. Do it. We've seen people solve difficult canine problems for which we held out little hope of recovery. It was achieved through sheer persistence and commitment. Not every problem has a solution, but most do and that solution is 100% dependent on you. Take the time, create a miracle.
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